22 April 2013

"The Immortal Rape Culture" in a sickened society!!


Hopeless days seem never ending.And there is one day or just a moment that gives you hope. Amid enfolding anguish, one has to strain his eyes away to find that little ray of light.Only a section of these determined rays, one hopes will eventually blast a sunshine sized hole through that cloud of pain and despair. Among reports of rapes every day, comes a story of 5 year old girl that would leave you with tears and the mass outrage of people that are the agents of hopes and hence involved in protesting the streets up for the justice and demanding change from the system.

"The Rape Culture" is getting worsen with every day, every hour and every minute in country and what it follows is a bad image among the people living in the same country and worldwide where people questions the integrity of country with such a rich history and traditions.In my view, it is totally ethical and fair to do the same. When the women in the country are not safe, it has nothing to do with the history and stuff.What the dark truth is that people over here aren't civilized enough to respect the opposite sex which are equal in every possible way.In recent years, with context to the increasing statistics and the brutality of crime the society is actually seen growing be called as sickened society.

Mass aggression by people on social sites, TV Channels,newspapers, blogs and majorly on the streets is something supportive in favour of  humanity and country. It gives ray of hope that where on the one end are the devils of society busy staining humanity, on the other lies an enlightened society who no longer in a state seeing women being suffered, threatened, oppressed, tortured or feared in any way.The 'latter' category belongs to society of civilized people where 'former' are the cockroaches who need to be brushed aside from the society maybe through capital punishments. In a democratic country, as we say there are governing bodies elected through citizen voting who in turn takes a charge maintaining law and order along with judiciary and police authorities. But these incidents are a slap on the face of World's biggest Democracy that in turn we are not capable for running our own country peacefully.Even after 16th Dec gang rape incident, whole of the country was dumbstruck to what happened and the way it happened! It was horrific yet inhumanly torturous.Then we at that moment felt for it and protested till we could forcefully with full determination and anguish on our mind that we just can't withstand such act of violence in the country.Four months passed to it but still situation remained unchanged and the recent case to 5 year old girl clearly points to the failure of system and failure of police security.

The media intervention, 24*7 news coverage,banner headlines, facebook posts updates, debates, discussions remain on the peek for a while gaining enough attention for the people to wake up and ponder upon it.In the process,even such people exist who believe to condole rather than stop and knock it out which even includes the Government who are satisfied with their mournful statements. But what follows is the same incident again. It is shocking when the news breaks out that even on the day of protest, 3 girls were raped in the same city. It states that somewhere in the city where people cries their heart out, there remain an insane set of people who does not believe to be bothered at all.There are people who gets agitated over it and further lights up candles and walk towards the streets asking for change and rather fighting(apt. word) for change from lawful authorities. Days passes, weeks passes and even month passes people keep protesting in a hope that someday the candle they hold would enlighten the darkened minds with a sense of responsibility and accountability and not that they would be inserting it into someone's private parts.

Pray, Fight, Cry, Hope, Protest, Agitate is all we could do in order to make a better world rather than vote which we saw hardly makes any difference in our very own democracy. Women's safety is a concern today not for living but for survival. Fearful and horrifying eyes could be found anywhere in metros, cities, subways, roads and in any corner of country who tries to make sure she gets away safely from the stalkers or eve-teasers.Being part of the same society, it makes me feel ridiculously worried about the state of the opposite sex, about their survival, about their safety.

Does one really needs to be 'Superman' to escape away the adversities of such sort rather than being a man by not putting them into such situations only. The rapists rape anyone regardless of their age, what they are wearing, what they are up to or where they have been to and numerous things. And at this point, victim just can't be at fault in any way. Its always the torture and the inhuman being who snatches away the right to live from the soul of an innocent being.

" Should we treat women as independent agents, responsible for themselves? Of course. But being responsible and independent  has nothing to do with being raped. Women don’t get raped because they were drinking or took drugs. Women do not get raped because they were not careful enough. Women get raped because someone raped them.” 

 Jessica ValentiThe Purity Myth: How America's Obsession with Virginity is Hurting Young Women

We have to be the change we want to see! So more power to change-makers, more power to you!!

Poster Credits: gotstared.at



8 April 2013

Finally First Frame Fever!!!

I so wanted to write this post maybe couple of days ago but it is delayed and highly delayed by me. One thing that I hate the most is "mood swings".I am a way too moody, maybe ainwayi!! Finally after writing this blog, I will be relieved from inner self and hence it will make me feel lighter. Well, films became an integral part of me all of a sudden. I started with them just as in for entertainment but since an year or two, I feel highly attracted to the films and more of a film-making in general. It became my dream and passion to achieve.And being in a media college, I get an edge over achieving it. Since the day I heard my college planning to host a film festival, I literally went crazy over the news. It is been titled as "First Frame Students International Film Festival".


And not to miss the fact, it is the first ever Student's International Film Festival that India witnessed back in 2003. Well, it was something that made me feel proud of MBICEM. And finally this year 2013, it was 5th edition in kitty of First Frame legacy. Mid-Jan this mission actually started till the 3rd of April. It was a combined effort of hundreds of people who worked on the screen and off the screen. By this, I mean 57 film makers who submitted their entries and the whole of the First Frame team and the College in total.



Why I am writing this post? Because we on the whole suffered from "First Frame Film Festival Fever".(Not to miss the alliteration :P ) and now when its over, we all look back at it and give a hefty smile to the magnificient team work and co-ordination. It was the biggest event indeed in my life being as a student. I still remember the online promotion that I did. Yesterday only I was checking my twitter profile that got revived due to first frame, I literally dedicated numerous around 70 tweets to it. We guys so wanted to make it trend #firstframe and #filmdreamers that everytime we used to login, we used to tweet about it.Or be it the first frame news that we used to make viral on the web with sharing and sharing. Even I was checking back my Fb profile while changing the cover photo of the first frame(I still didn't want to change it though) the profile was occupied with posts regarding happy news of sponsorships and many other info related to it.And being a volunteer, I just can't miss the proud feeling of wearing First Frame T-Shirt for those two days while doing the duties.

Well now talking about the event, it was fantastic one bigger and huge than we expected. In 2 days of event, our 3 months of craziness did wonder. 31 fantastic films by talented film makers from prestigious institutes like MBICEM, FTII, NID, AJK-MCRC and The London Film School and many were screened at the festival along with 71 photographs for F8 Photography Competition. Even for the participants, On-the-spot mobile film making was on the platter. Extremely talented panelists & guests of honor were the other big thing for the event. And two more things, Meeting with "The Placebo" team and performance of Kingdom of Dreams acted as  cherries on the First Frame Cake :P Placebo is a different and the best genre of cinema that I witnessed and Abhay Kumar and Archana Phadke were the two people who deserved a 'hats off' for their work! Placebo must happen and it will surely happen...
Coming back to the topic, after the huge First Frame 2013, I suddenly found enough of vela time for myself as if more than 24 hours! So I got hooked up to "The Kite Runner-movie,novel and many other things. Maybe not IPL this time! not yet, its been a week and I haven't seen even a single match. Wonder is it the boredom or the First Frame effect.

Lastly, First Frame 2013 just gone by, could First Frame 2014 be far behind?? :D
Nahh! First Frame 2014 would be on its wayy...


 

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